Whoops, its been a month since I last updated the blog. Time flies, as they say.
I had last written about Paige having an MRI to see what, if anything, was going on in her leg and how it might be affecting the growth of her left (shorter) leg. It looks as though the Femoral Artery in her left leg has some irregularities that may be the key to what's going on with the leg. We believe her kidney may have nothing to do with the leg length difference (and the Femoral Artery may instead be the culprit). We hope to have more info in the next few weeks once several more folks take a look at the MRI scan.
Onto the summer. In June, Paige and I spent a leisurely week in New Jersey with my parents. Every now and then I'm asked the witty question "what exit?" when I tell someone I grew up in New Jersey. That, or they look confused and tell me I don't sound like I'm from New Jersey. One time a lady (in upstate New York) actually said something along the lines of "I'm so sorry" when she learned where I was from.
I don't think any other state is the butt of more jokes than poor New Jersey, and the problem has worsened ever since The Sopranos, The Real Housewives of New Jersey and Jersey Shore (whose cast members, by the way, are all from Staten Island) all hit the airwaves.
Mom, I think the idea you suggested years ago is still a good one. If we change the name of the state from New Jersey to Princeton most of the jokes would stop. Maybe Mr. Christie can work on that.
New Jersey is quite beautiful if you can get past Newark Airport and has lots of open land and, believe it or not, lots of wildlife. During our week there, we saw the fellow pictured below several times a day in my parents' backyard. Most of the time he had several deer friends with him, they were probably discussing how to raid the local vegetable gardens in the middle of the night.
We happened to be at my parents house for Father's Day, so Paige and I took Mom and Dad out for dinner. Here are Dad and Paige with the Fathers Day cards we got him.
Somewhere along the line Mom dug out an old hairpiece of hers (we were looking at some old photos and I think I had asked her how she got her hair to look a certain way). It didn't take long for Paige to try it on for size.
Paige and Gramps spent some time in the backyard. That hammock is deceiving - if you don't lie right in the middle of it, it flips over and dumps you onto the ground.
After we returned home to WI, we were invited by some friends to spend the day at their lake house. This is the third summer in a row we've visited with them there, and Paige is getting quite accustomed to hanging out on their boat. Our first visit to their lake house, two years ago, was pretty memorable, as I'll show you in just a little bit.
This year she even rode in the tube (pulled by the boat) by herself.
At the lake on this day were a bunch of adults and two kids: Paige and Ian. Paige is quite fond of Ian, as you can see here.
Paige is also good friends with Ron, who earned the nickname Captain Ron the summer two years ago when he first showed Paige how to drive the boat. Here he is yet again letting Paige steer the boat. Check out how she's trying to push the throttle as far as it will go.
Getting back to the memorable first visit to the Hudson's lake house two years ago. One thing that sets Paige apart from most kids, apart from her Hypoplastic Left Heart, is the various medication she takes on a daily basis. Two of those are blood thinners. These cause her to bruise easily. Anyone that knows Paige knows she always has a bruise - or two, or three - on an arm and/or leg.
So, in the summer of 2009, Paige was 4, and she was attending daycare when Jim and I were both at work. One afternoon I got a call from daycare telling me she had tripped and fallen onto her forehead. She appeared to be OK but they asked that I come by and take a look for myself. When I arrived 20 minutes later she was out on the playground, holding a bag of ice to her forehead, but she said she felt fine. I took her to her pediatrician to be sure. She confirmed Paige was A-OK.
But oh, those blood thinners.
She hit her head on a Wednesday. By the following Saturday, she looked like this:
Because her blood doesn't clot as easily as most people (due to the blood thinners), the blood from her hitting her head 1) swelled up her forehead (you can't see it here but her forehead was swollen up a good 3/4") and 2) the blood drained down around her eyes causing the puffy raccoon effect.
Saturday was also the party at the Hudson's lake house and we didn't want to miss it. On the way there Paige and I picked up something to drink at the grocery store. For those of you who have not brought a child who looks like they've just gone several rounds with Muhammad Ali to a public place, let me tell you it stops people in their tracks. One fellow jokingly asked what happened to the other guy. I was relieved when nobody called the cops to report a case of obvious chid abuse.
When we got to the Hudson's party everyone thought Paige was wearing some (really awful) makeup.
It took over a month for the bruising to disappear. To give you an idea, here we are 2-3 weeks later and the bruises are lighter but still pretty obvious. This photo was taken at a family reunion. My sister in law did her best to apply some foundation to the bruises for the family photos (it sort of worked, but you can still see he bruising).
We refer to that time as The Summer That Paige Hit Her Head.
Back to 2011.
One of the highlights of every summer is the annual 4th of July parade in Lincolnshire, IL, where Jim works. All of the firetrucks are in the parade, and all of the firefighters' families ride on the various trucks and engines and throw candy to the crowds. Here is a photo of some of the vehicles lined up before the parade. It was pretty hot this day and I was very glad to be riding inside the fire engine instead of on top of one.
Every year Paige gets to drive the engine. I never get over the envious looks she gets from the kids lining the parade route (how on earth does she get to drive the fire truck?). Driving the engine is fun - but what's really fun is activating the siren, which is what she's doing here. You know you've done it right when people along the road begin to put their hands over their ears (inside the engine the siren is not loud at all).
We invited our next door neighbors, the Abraham Family, to come with us and ride in the truck. It was way more fun with friends to play with (and share candy with) during the parade. The kids even managed to throw some of the candy to the crowds lining the parade route.
Most years the fire department gives all the firefighters and their families t shirts to commemorate the day. We have some fun t shirts from years past. They have always been a solid color. Until this year.
My eyes hurt from looking at this picture (I'm sure yours do too - sorry).
After the parade we all came back to the station to regroup. Here are Paige and Eli enjoying some down time.
When Paige was a year old we had her sit for a photo in front of the firetruck holding Jim's helmet. I thought it would be a fun photo to take as she got older.
Here is the same kid with the same helmet, 5 years ago.
We board our horse a few miles from our home and try to get out to see him a few times a week, even if we aren't going for a ride. This is what we were doing a few days ago late on a Wednesday afternoon. Here are Paige and Artie enjoying a nuzzle.
Some people find the sounds and smells of the ocean relaxing. Other people go camping to relax (I am not one of those people, as my husband can tell you). I enjoy hanging out at the barn. The photo below was taken on a quiet afternoon of Paige and our trainer, Kelley.